Who am I?
As far as I can remember my answer has always been “who ever I need to be”
Not “should be” or “want to be” always “need to be”.
Same with the “where am I going” thing. Always “need to be”. It’s nice to be needed.
In the coming near future, We the People are going to need to do a lot of things We the People don’t want to do and many would say shouldn’t do but things We the People definitely need to do.