Preconceived notions and expectations are not ingredients in this recipe.

When trying a recipe for the first time people have the habit of expecting it to taste just like Mom's or Gramma's or look just like the box. It's doomed to fail. It rarely lives up to our expectations. I always try to start with a clear head and open heart. I assess my ingredients. … Continue reading Preconceived notions and expectations are not ingredients in this recipe.

Wisdom from 1992

I remember a time when I wished that today would hurry up and be over. So I would crash out. Only to wake up the next ending it with the same thought. Wasting my time. Procrastinating. I remember wondering if others were worthy of possessing what I wished to posess. But when their worthiness became … Continue reading Wisdom from 1992

Judge not lest ye be judged. Only God can judge me! And a jury of my peers.

It's hard not to judge people. We are very judgemental creatures. Accepting this fact, I try to keep my judgment of people to things like if you use select-a-size paper towels or don't have gap insurance or a home warranty. You know, important societal issues. Not silly things like skin tone or past fuck ups. … Continue reading Judge not lest ye be judged. Only God can judge me! And a jury of my peers.